[19]urgent need to rebuild OPM reserve#NOT another shop

In 1997 I made a similar mistake by gambling my father’s money (under my care) into commodity futures. I quickly realize I took on a bigger risk than I could afford and immediately i decided to exit at a huge loss.

Over the years I have used up increasing amount of money that really belongs to wife and grandpa. Now I need to stop that trend and rebuild (or maintain)

  1. grandpa’s SGD 40k
  2. wife’s SGD 85k
  3. –The USD amounts below can be invested in liquid assets like stocks, mutual funds or REITs
  4. wife’s USD 70k
  5. grandpa’s USD 26k

I think the SGD contingency reserves should remain reserves, not invested in another shop unit !

In my experience,

  • I have often felt guilty and regretful using OPM as my own money
  • Have I ever regretted keeping OPM as OPM?

In contrast, my personal reserves do not generate guilt and regret:

  • CPF
  • 401k
  • warehouse account with Jay Hu