Consider parts of NJ close to JC. I could focus on jobs in JC and exclude NYC, to cut down my commute. I could then buy in a nice NJ suburb.

Consider Boston.

Other states may offer shorter commute, more space, less congestion, possibly better schools.

Shiva recommends Charlotte, NC

Consider Jack’s suggestion on work-from-home tech jobs

This is another advantage of U.S. job market.