designerLabel≠2x better Quality

Many Asian parents are not affluent enough to choose luxury designer labels but they act differently when it comes to college selection.

These middle-class parents don’t have 5 million net worth that enable them to afford a 250k “designer label” college education where the quality thereof is only marginally higher. However, the stereotypical Asian middle-class parent often chooses to spend like the upper class on education. They go for the most luxury they can afford.

“Prestige” is Kyle’s term. I call it “branded” as it’s similar to any /luxury designer label/. Designer labels marketing message usually includes something like “Yes we are priced well above the second tiers, but quality is what you get.

Some Asian parents seem to consider branded college as 5x the quality of a 2nd tier college. Is that true? At a branded university, quality of education is often superior but there’s no objective numerical multiplier like “2 times better”. Spent 250k on top college but your kid outshone by colleagues is my most elaborate illustration of the quality paradox.

Even though as an insider I know the quality of education is similar between NUS, UChicago or other colleges where my colleagues studied, I feel a deep fear that sending my kids to the smaller brand could damage their future.

  1. transportation tools like Cars are the #1 best example of prestige translating to quality, due to heavy wear-n-tear.
  2. Building materials also have substantial differences in quality.
  3. furniture has quality difference.

Pattern: the more physical/mechanical something feels, the more I believe in its quality. For learning, 达者为师. Best books are freely available.

Best teachers are often at lesser-known colleges. So if a lesser-known college employs the real leading experts in the field such as Doug Lea, Stoustrup, John Hull or the 古典文学专家 in 北师大, then parents get a better bargain in those colleges, in terms of access to teacher.

I feel my friend CSY is trapped in a rabbit hole, unable to take a step back.

branded uni@@ #YH

I feel at least half the Chinese (and Korean, Indian, Russian) parents in the U.S. seem to target the ivy league or other famous colleges so as a result they greatly increase the competition.

My wife and I don’t have the financial resources (like half a million), or the appetite or the time/energy to engage in this competition. Sometimes it feels a bit like a rat race…

If my kids are close to that academic standard then yes I will endeavor to help them grow towards it and hopefully get into a decent college, if not a famous one.

FYI I have a master’s degree from University of Chicago, on par with ivy league in terms of reputation and academic standards (with more Nobel laureates than most ivy league colleges)

I feel famous universities are like medical schools, sports cars, designer whey — designed for the rich and the image-conscious. In terms of quality of education, a lesser-known national top-100 college can be comparable and decent.

Crucially, many bright students accept a scholarship offer by a second-tier quality colleges (like SBU) after a cool-headed value/price evaluation. Their families recognize that branded colleges are, like branded clothing, only marginally better in quality. As a result, top colleges don’t have real monopoly on talent. Other colleges produce many successful graduates.

branded uni: best$value plan #Kyle

Kyle believes college prestige does matter to job seekers, not only because of campus recruitment. Based on his belief, he wants to find a best value for his future kids — a low-cost college with good prestige.

Q: what level of prestige?
A: he said top 50 or lower by U.S.News ranking, which is based on nothing but professor research.

This prestige is not related to quality of education. I then told Kyle about Grace Dong’s experience at PACE. Peer influence from fellow students is a big part of quality of education. Obviously top colleges have more motivated, brighter students.

He stressed repeatedly that he didn’t want to send his kids to Ivy league. I think this is similar to my habit to avoid branded clothing. However, I would still send my kids to a branded college if I can afford it, because it’s no worse than an unbranded college.

Lateral thinking —

  • internship — is important for my son
  • Geographical location of the college is possibly more important than prestige. Some 2nd-tier colleges in NYC get many campus recruitments from Wall St
  • Q: how about sending my kids to Singapore universities?

(with enough savings) small home@good Loc^brandedUni: spend%%savings

Scenario —

  • incomes:
    • keep working till 75 with salary income, and probably don’t need a lot of passive income, but this is a hope, not a dependable guarantee
    • we plan to rely on CPF-LIFE without bequest without deferment
    • a few high-yielding property income streams
  • burn rate:
    • we keep burn rate at current level and save USD 6k-8k/M till … 60?
    • no luxury spend like overseas trips — not worth it
  • If we retire in Singapore/Malaysia, we can downgrade to a small home
  • we sell some of the lower-yielding properties such as Beijing and HDB
  • .. In this scenario we have a lot of spare cash. Instead of keeping it until I can’t spend it, here are 2 better ways to spend it
#2 brandedUni #1 good loc but small home leisure trips notes
budget/USD up to 300k up to 700k [2] 5k/Y
category questionable “inv” investment + convenience enjoy
outlay time frame college years 2022 onward after kids go to college [1]

One special benefit of good location — wife can run a home daycare. Customers are more comfortable with such locations. Home doesn’t need to be spacious. Look at Wai Cheng’s acupuncture clinic.

[1] By this time we understand our cashflow situation better
[2] affordability @700k home shows I need a big down payment

## spend%%savings for a better lifestyle #Rahul

See also increase spendor risk dywith2much unused cash #ZhuRong

Rahul pointed out that his grandpa is 95 and doesn’t want to spend on anything including renovation of his home. Presumably, he enjoys a simple lifestyle? I agree that this grandpa might pass away with quite some money, but that amount is not really significant even if given to a single heir. I feel the only meaningful way to use that money is helping out an offspring that’s financially struggling.

I also agree with Rahul that it’s better to spend most of the money on himself to “ease his life” as Rahul puts it.

Rahul is not advocating lavish squandering. I singled out overseas vacation as unworthy squandering.

Q1: how would I increase my spending on myself (not kids or wife) before it’s “too late”?

  • 1) keep working till 75 but on the back of my savings, choose a lower-paying job that’s less stressful and more fulfilling
  • more family reunions with grandma, sister etc
  • more staycations — low-cost, short trips
  • fitness classes; personal trainer to improve my flexibility, weight etc
  • fancy (healthy) fruits and (cooked) veg
  • mountain climbing trips

Q2: i don’t know what “too late” means to me

commodity stocks^price: poor correlation

The marketing propagandas from various sources often hint that as commodity demands (BRIC?) push up commodity prices, the commodity stocks (mining and beyond) would “certainly” appreciate.

Not so certain. In the real world there are many conflicting factors, to reduce that correlation to a barely meaningful level.

 

## FSM adv over ETF or individual stock trading

The special (most valuable) benefit of FSM over ETF — no live trading no live prices

  1. no live price, so I’m less tempted to check my portfolio during office hours
  2. All orders are queued till end of day, so even if I can see live prices of underlying stocks, I’m less tempted to engage in trading during office hours

Other benefits of FSM:

  • specialty stocks otherwise inaccessible, like other regions in other currencies.
  • small minimum amount ($100 or $1000) with the standard upfront fee (5%) waived. Extremely important for testing the water.
  • $0 transaction cost thought trailer fee applies

retirement income replace-rate: not useful2me

replacementRate := income After you retire / income Before[1] you retire

[1] before means … the final year, perhaps part-time job salary  + nonwork income

https://www.dbs.com.sg/personal/articles/retirement-planning/let-time-be-your-friend-when-planning-for-retirement  says The OECD average is 63% (and presumably insufficient for many retirees, according to the marketing brainwash).

I find this percentage too high to be realistic. My salary before retirement would be 150k in today’s USD. My income after I retire would be much lower than that, but so is my burn rate.

Therefore, I find this percentage highly misleading and questionable. Therefore, I don’t want to spend too much time /dwelling/ on it. On the other hand, This concept/notion is well-defined and may become more prevalent via my (evolving) selective listening.  Therefore, it might be useful to have a view.

Instead of this replacement rate, I have many blogposts more relevant to my situation.

sqf: most U.S.homes are oversize 4me

99% of U.S. houses and most 2-3 BR condos are oversize but fairly acceptable.

I saw a Tudor style brick house for sale $540k, close to 100 Hillside Ave. 1825 sqft for a couple with a baby. 3 bed rooms, each big enough for a queen bed. There’s a big dining room + living room…. Completely unnecessary for me.

The “extra” space requires

  1. bigger price tag
  2. extra renovation cost
  3. extra tax every month
  4. extra heating cost
  5. extra on-going maintenance cost and effort

Why not save the $200k (or whatever) and use it on

  • investments
  • enrichment programs,
  • more family reunions