[21]become as WellOff as]SG@@ #war-chest

See also [17]U.S.burn rate now n after #Gerald

“Well off” is a vague term. “Carefree ezlife” is slightly less vague.  This blogpost is focused on their intersection.

In several blogposts, I have highlighted the high maintenance when living in U.S. , which disrupts my carefree ezlife. I have also highlighted the additional costs such as Melvin3.

Q: is there any hope of feeling well-off as I now feel in Singapore?
A: yes, though much smaller than in SG.

First, the key ingredients of my well-off life in Singapore:

  1. brbr
  2. job (and salary) security
  3. no strain due to long commute.. Such a strain makes me feel impoverished
  4. very cheap medbx
  5. no mtg, negligible pTax
  6. no car needed
  7. wife can afford to stay home and take care of kids’ studies etc
  8. ? no private tuition at the moment .. a small factor
  9. ? rental income ?  no effect on my life now

Q: how could I realistically become well-off in the U.S. ?
A: would take a lot of effort, accumulation, from now

  • #1) We need to accept (tough!) a more minimalist lifestyle than my cohort and Aim at a burn rate 10% lower. Remember they have much higher household income. Resist FOMO and lifestyle creep, just like in Singapore.
  • initially no car. Then buy a modest (but safe) car and use it less than U.S. families.
  • initially buy medbx for wife+kids. Later can include me on a cheap medbx with high deductible + coinsurance
  • reduce restaurant visits
  • work hard and slowly on the 43R model, rather than raising my salary. If I remain in-demand, then my salary would be reasonable. Marginal gain in salary requires extraordinary marginal effort.
  • rEstate is one domain where U.S. offers advantages over SG, and may present the best route to ffree
  • avoid overseas vacations. U.S. + Canada + Mexico offer plenty of choices.
  • one of the new strategies is the war chest .. section below

— war chest .. build up a much bigger war chest than I need in Singapore. This is the definition of war chest. This is also a battery that can store excess solar energy. These “batteries” are also war chests, but not all financial.

Analog: covid19 required Singapore government to massively strengthen its pandemic capacity. SG gov past reserve is a classic war chest

 

##[19]ffree derailers rated #resilience

See also

To have any chance of lasting value, this blogpost need a _scope_ and must not become /indiscriminate/. In this personal finance blog, I won’t say too much about livelihood risks. Now let us shift our focus to ffree derailers.

This bpost is at least “w1r10”.

— intro .. Insurance and emigration companies put out subtle marketing messages portraying their “products” as the main protections in a person’s life, but that’s 喧宾夺主

  • 1) health and 2) cash flow are the twin primary livelihood risks in our lives.
  • Family stability (and harmony) .. is the third risk factor, a distant third in some traditional families, perhaps decades ago.
  • PIP, (kids’) grades … are two big derailers in some lives.

In contrast, some of the adversities listed below are outlier (black swan or missteps?) events i.e. highly unlikely. They are nevertheless worth knowing. If you don’t pay attention, they are more likely to hit you.

— ffree derailers .. All of these adversities demand financial resources and can drain my reserve. In some of them, a single misjudgment/misstep on my part could threaten to weaken or break a pillar beneath my lifelong foundation..

  • [v = too vague.. Can be more specific]
  • [3 := Pr(hit in my lifetime) ≈ 10^-3 =0.001 (three leading zeros). This numerical estimate depends critically on the qualifying criteria. Many criteria below are vague 🙁 and does not deserve this numerical estimate]
  • [0 := Pr(hit in my lifetime) >> 10%]
  • [$ or $$ = level of livelihood/financial impact. Within a given item like injury, there are many levels of financial impact. Here we try to give a (highly imprecise) estimate of the upper limit. No $$$ please]
  • [F = the later we hit the derailer, the Fwd Hazard Rate improves i.e. less impact ]
  • — half ranked by severity, and logically grouped .. Heaviest derailers sinking down (No precise composite sort key please.)
  • [5 $] natural disaster hitting my properties esp. BGC [criteria: $100k cost]
  • [5 $$v]Misstep: juvenile delinquency… before age 18 [criteria: criminal record]
  • [3 $$] Misstep: criminal offense …… often due to 一念之差 (misstep) [eg trespass, Genn’s fraud?] [aa]
  • ..[F] The later it hits in my career, the less financial impact it would have on my remaining career 🙂
  • ..[4 $$] Misstep: Immigration offense -> GC implication? I think you won’t get a chance to explain or appeal. Luckily I can always work in Singapore. This can only happen when you are in U.S. before receiving GC. Staying in SG, you reduce Pr(hit).
  • [3F $] minor misstep: personal trading breaches contributing to job instability .. In the grand scheme of things, this disaster is much smaller than criminal offense or immigration offense
  • [1F $$] minor swan:/oversized/ loss …. (100k) on property investments. I have already hit 10k losses.
  • —- accidents + illness, where medBx is crucial
  • [3 $] misstep: driving mistake injuring SomeoneElse….. need liability insurance [criteria: financial liability. A much lower (severity) criteria than above]
  • [2 $$] misstep or swan: injury (partly) due to driving mistake ….. [criteria: hospitalization within my family, in my lifetime]
  • .. Can I minimize driving? I guess I need heavy practice to improve, before I reduce driving !
  • [3v] minor swan: kids’ injury …….. before age 18 [criteria? how serious? Let’s be vague]
  • [1] misstep/swan: bike accidents …. or personal accidents. [criteria? hospitalization within my family, in my lifetime] Handicap is rare but more likely at an older age.
  • [3 $$v] swan: major medical …….. what if a family member needs a lot of acute medical help but not hospitalized and not due to aging? Very vague:( [criteria: 200k out of pocket]
  • [0 v]  swan: minor medical ……. kids’ health, wife’s health, my health.. [criteria? out-of-pocket 20->40-50k cumulative cost for a given condition, in my lifetime] These minor health issues are multiple times more likely than accidents of equivalent severity.
  • ^^^^^
  • [0 $] issue like sis’s where father had to put in all his savings for rescue 
  • [2 $] Misstep: drug addiction …….. [criteria? need professional including medical intervention by age 30 ]. More widespread than juvenile delinquency or minor medical!
  • [F $$$] disastrous Misstep: divorce …. high probability + huge impact. The later it hits in my life, the less financial impact.
  • [0F] salary instability …………. remains the #1 derailer, even though (paradoxically)  ffree is defined for zero dependency on salary. [Criteria: drop by half and half again before 70.]
    • age discrimination, churn/evolution
    • PIP? Usually doesn’t lead to salary instability if you are in-demand.

[aa] For the minor offenses, hopefully I get a chance to defend myself in front of employers, but sometimes the background check could immediately get you  disqualified without a chance to explain. Sounds scary, but Pr(hit) is below 10^-5.

The big list demonstrates that the most likely missteps/swans are less severe whereas the most severe missteps/swans are rare. 

There are other /uninsurable/ disasters to derail my ffree “dream”. How much more money would you need for those? 10M? Forget it! Below are some of my practical “defenses”. “Resilience” is my favorite word here rather than “protection” which sounds more lazy, passive and more reliant on external protection.

There is some overlap with random list@protections and other lists, but the below list is focused on resilience against disasters, and more about cashflow.

  • #1 resilience strategy — career longevity=Bedrock@ %%fledgling ffree
    • Better keep learning and keep applying your skills. If you retire for a while then forced by a disaster to /unretire/ (i.e. come out of retirement and rejoin the workforce), you will hit an uphill worse than the uphill facing those loyal employees
  • resilience strategy — invest in the “Singapore_hedge” to hedge the risks of rejection_by_US_job_market
  • resilience strategy — buy time, slow down and blunt the impact of the disaster. Some situations would improve gradually as my family adjusts to the situation
  • resilience strategy — bx? continue to spend some time on review
  • resilience strategy — diversify “productive” investments generating regular income + increase contingency reserve
  • resilience strategy — identify retirement destinations with reliable, low-cost health care such as MYS

t_utopia^t_carefree^ ffree^ezlife #horizon

A link to this blogpost: ffree^carefree^cashflowH/L ground

In my blogs, here are 4 related terms, ranked by durability

  1. carefree .. the current (half-year period) stress /profile/, largely based on ffree
  2. .. (not a tag) ezlife .. the broader lifestyle over a 3Y horizon, largely dependent on carefree
  3. T_utopia .. black-hat [critical, cautious, often negative] examination of my state of carefree, peaceful satisfaction/bliss, over a 3Y horizon. As a tag, this is more selective than T_carefree. Even broader than ezlife. Warning: “Utopia” has extra connotations.. See ##homegrown English terms #rikigai
  4. ffree .. strictly financial. “Temporary ffree”? Never

— In terms of cash flow

  • carefree ezlife .. very short-term. Ezlife can come to a quick end.
  • Cash flow high/low ground .. slightly less short-term, based on brbr math, Fuller wealth
  • ffree .. long-horizon like 20Y, dominated by big shocks and hazards like black^white swans.

Therefore, real ffree is a high bar … see NAV 一辈子花不完@@ 3 factors .